somebody please help me, i cant figure out if im bi (or lesbian?? idk). i liked my best friend in middle school (but didnt call it that, just "wanted to be closer to her") and turns out she's questioned too and has liked me back, but never at the same time. now, years later, after repressing and almost forgetting about those feelings, i found out she like (s/d?) me again, and now i cant stop thinking about her.