What about what I need? Will you be able to give me that in the future? What about not judging me for how I'm healing? Everything's about you. You always said that you put me first when in reality that was a lie. It wasn't just the cheating that hurt me. It was the also the lying and the manipulating. You didn't lie to me because you were afraid the truth would hurt my feelings. You lied to me because you were afraid the truth would provoke me to make decisions that wouldn't serve your best interests. If you genuinely want to be there for me in the future, admit all these things and prove that your actions can speak louder than your words.