pros and cons list? you know i'm not very good w things like this either. i also never wanted this to be a him or me situation, you haven't lost me and you're never going to. i still need to distance myself though because he is clearly not okay with you talking to me, i really don't want him to start treating you like shit because of it. so if you two get back together, i will step back and stop reaching out to you, but this definitely doesn't mean you've lost me - i'm always gonna be here. Just maybe don't message me on ig, cause he's clearly not okay with that.