I wonder if you would ever use (or have used) this site. I've written here before, and I'm sure if you looked you would know exactly which other unsent message is mine. I am not here to express the same sentiment. Instead I would like to apologize for being so insecure and manipulative. I am sure if I had listened to your reasons for our split (instead of dismissing them), I would have realized just how toxic and emotionally draining and damaging I was. I should not have been in a relationship. I know you are doing great things, and I hope you are well!