I know you miss who you used to be back then, but maybe you’re holding onto that version of you a little too tightly. You’re letting 2019 define you and nothing else. You’re picking apart the past and replaying it over and over again. You’re being really hard on yourself. And I just wanted to let you know that it’s okay if things are different. It okay if you’re different. I think we can both agree that change is good. It allows room for growth. It’s okay to not be as good as you think you should be. It’s okay to grow apart from friends who used to be your everything. It’s okay to be sad. I love you even if you don’t love yourself.