how can i know if hes the one. like what if we try again and it actually works out. the what ifs are constantly on my mind. idk what the right thing to do is but he keeps me wrapped around his finger bc he told me hes not ready for a relationship rn but he wants me to stay. im ready lol. if he would find a way to cope with his problems maybe he could handle me. how do i know if im being "too clingy" like i constantly check his location and get upset when hes active but he doesnt text me back. i just want affermation from him. he tells me he cares but does he? lol anyway